Seeking Advice From Other Moms

[ad]Okay, yes this is my second pregnancy, but it has been ten years. I’m seeking advice from all the moms out there for a couple of my pregnancy symptoms.

Swollen feet, what to do about them? When I was pregnant with Liam they didn’t swell until the last trimester. This go around they’re already swollen. I really don’t want to contemplate buying larger shoes right now, so any advice on getting the swelling down? I already drink water and know I need to be drinking more. I’m also trying (emphasis on the trying) to monitor my sodium intake.

Also headaches. I swear I’ve had a constant low grade headache for a month now, but I’m pretty sure it’s allergy related as my sinuses are acting up. I wake up with a stuffy head and a raging headache that’s concentrated between the eyes and/or on the sides. I’m already taking Sudafed for the allergies but anything else to help. I’m almost contemplating a humidifier in the bedroom to help me breathe at night or at least to stop my sinuses from getting clogged.

Thanks in advance for anything you can tell me!

Katy

BTW I don’t care how fat I am at Halloween, you won’t catch me doing this…

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How to Choose a Children’s Book, Part 4 – Attractive Illustrations

This is the fourth in a series of articles on how to choose a children’s book. Last time, I talked about how to choose books with themes that will appeal to children. In this article I will discuss the place of a book’s illustrations in making it appealing to a child, and I will try to give some guidance on what to look for in children’s book illustrations. However, I should say up front that there is a lot of room for difference of opinion over what makes for attractive book illustrations, so take my guidance as applying only “for the most part”; there will be many exceptions to it, due to a certain amount of subjectivity inherent in any aesthetic judgments.

My central point: The illustrations of a book are perhaps the largest part of what makes a book attractive to kids, especially for children younger than eight years old. In fact, recently when I was re-reading Hi, Cat! in preparation for writing an author spotlight on Ezra Jack Keats, the images of mint green ice cream on Archie’s dark face, and of Peter’s dog Willie licking the ice cream off, jumped out as vivid memories from my own childhood. My parents had read the book to me when I was little and I still remember the images over 30 years later! I’ve had similar experiences while reading Maurice Sendak’s In the Night Kitchen to my children. The point is that attractive illustrations are almost always what focuses a young child’s interest and attention on a book-often in surprisingly enduring ways! Without strong illustrations young children may well lose interest in a book, even if the story is great.

Now, some guidance. In my view, there is no deep mystery to choosing books with illustrations that are appealing to kids: in general, if you think the illustrations are attractive and interesting to look at, so will a child. For example, both children and adults will revel in Jerry Pinkney’s delicious illustrations in The Lion & the Mouse. However, there will be some exceptions. For example, many children will not enjoy illustrations that are particularly dark, scary, or abstract, so if you are an adult with such aesthetic tastes, you should keep this difference of taste in mind when choosing children’s books.

Like the themes of a book, illustrations with content that connects with the experience and interests of the child will be more likely to make a book appealing to her. This criterion will not be hard to meet, however, since if you find a book with appropriate themes, the content of the illustrations will likely be on topic anyway (see my previous article on choosing books with appealing themes for more detail here).

Children in the infant-to-2-years age category will likely respond better to simpler and more concrete illustrations than to illustrations that are highly complicated or fanciful. Bold colors that catch the eye are also often especially attractive to toddlers. Helen Oxenbury’s Clap Hands is a book with illustrations that embody these characteristics of simplicity, concreteness, and bold colors, and so it is an especially good example of illustrations appropriate for toddlers. At best, illustrations with a lot of complexity and wild imagery will be lost on a toddler; at worst such illustrations might cause her to lose interest in the book.

However, slightly older children-in the 3-to-5- and 6-to-8-years age categories-respond very well to complex, detailed, and more fanciful illustrations. For example, my children (who are now six and eight years old) love Graeme Base’s books largely because of the intricate, detailed illustrations. In Animalia, Base packs his amazing illustrations with objects and details that my kids love to hunt for; on a few occasions we have spent hours at a time combing through his beautiful, detailed artwork.

Finally, while illustrations become less important as children get older-e.g., a good story alone might well hold a 9-to-12-year-old-illustrations can still help to tell a story, or illumine the content of a book for an older child. Brian Selznick’s The Invention of Hugo Cabret is an example of a book for children 9-to-12-and-up that makes tremendously effective use of illustrations. Half novel, half silent movie, there are stretches of the book where Selznick uses only haunting black and white illustrations to recount the gripping tale. The resulting effect is enchanting.

In the next article in this series I will continue to discuss the particular factors that contribute to a book’s subjective appeal-i.e., the considerations that render a book appealing to a child-taking up the role that a good story plays in drawing children into a book, and how adults can identify books with attractive stories.

Aaron Mead is currently a Ph.D. student in philosophy at UCLA, and has degrees from Stanford University (B.S., M.S.), Fuller Theological Seminary (M.Div.), and California State University, Los Angeles (M.A.). His philosophical interests include moral psychology and the development of moral character. He was fortunate to have book-savvy parents and has inherited their discriminating taste for children’s literature. Aaron runs Children’s Books and Reviews ( http://www.childrensbooksandreviews.com/ ), a website that publishes articles and reviews of children’s books, with an online bookstore full of excellent children’s literature for all ages.

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What to Know Before You Buy Cloth Diapers

Recently a member of my Mothers of Preschoolers group announced that she uses cloth diapers. At first I thought she was crazy, but then she told us a little about them. First off, they are not as thick and bulky as they used to be, and they come in all sorts of colors, and patterns. Many companies make them, and offer inserts that you leave in the diaper, and when the baby has gone number two you just take the insert out and either throw away or wash. That makes cleaning up a lot faster. Our MOPS member went through a specific company, but since that meeting I have found many more online. Here are some tips, ideas, and other facts I have learned about cloth diapering.

There are several different kinds of cloth diapers. They are:

All In Ones

Diaper Doublers or Liners

Fitted Diapers

Pre-folded Diapers

Flat or Square Diapers

Hemp, Sherpa, or Wool Diapers

Polar Fleece

Pocket Diapers

Snap to fits

Soakers

Possibly more, but these I have seen on many sites. Every person has a different need for cloth diapering, and with so many different kinds out there it is nice to have such a choice. I have purchased a few different ones, in my search for cloth diapering. My favorite is the all in one, most likely because it is the easiest to use, it isn’t expensive, it just isn’t cheap, though it is cheaper than repeatedly buying disposables. I hope that wasn’t too confusing. Pocket Diapers are nice also, but I think they look funny, and Snap to fits I think are nice because they can fit for such a long time, we bought cloth diapers that fit our 2 year old and our 6 month old at the same time.

Another thing I learned is that so many moms make cloth diapers, and they are not terribly hard to make, but it is important to use the right kind of fabric on the inside to keep it from wetting through. There are always covers that can be added to the diapers, but I do not like the concept of covers. There isn’t anything wrong with them, it is just a personal preference. I do like that you can make covers out of almost any fabric though, so babies can look very cool in the summer in their cute, homemade cloth diapers. I have also read that there can be an asthmatic reaction to disposable diapers, and the products and chemicals in them are not good for the baby’s skin, not to mention they end up going to the dump and can not be reused.

Cloth diapers themselves have come a long way, and now there are even some different accessories to make cloth diapering even easier. Wet bags, a bag that doesn’t let the smell through can be used in the diaper bag to hold dirty diapers, liners can be rewashed or some even flushed with the baby’s number 2 potty in them, and there are bags and holders for the home, like bigger wet bags, and there are still buckets, and even homemade wipes can be made for those who are really into it.

I like cloth diapering because it lets you use an olden days method, that obviously worked for hundreds of years, and is better for the baby anyways. Just getting past the initial cost can be a bit difficult especially if you are on one income, but just remembering that you can later resell the diapers on Ebay for about 75% of the cost you put into them might help that worry. And really it isn’t like you get any of that disposable diaper money back, right?

Now that you know the pros and cons of cloth diapering, it would be a good idea to check them out yourselves, I have many sites listed on my website that sell cloth diapers and other interesting products for babies, and mommies, through pregnancy and infancy. Come check them out, you won’t be sorry.

Cloth Diapering is Back! Everyone can enjoy the ease of use, the return of reselling them, and not having to make emergency trips to the store for more diapers. Check out my website for more information on where you can find great priced, and reviewed cloth diapers. The At Homer

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Originally posted 2009-08-28 22:55:12. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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What They Do Not Want You to Hear About Disposable Diapers

Are you starting a new family with baby number one on the way? If so, then you have undoubtedly started getting advice about things like which is best: the bottle or the breast? Laying baby on the back or on the tummy? Giving birth naturally or with the help of medication? And which is better, cloth or disposable diapers?

These are all things that are important considerations, but you should know that everyone has his or her own opinions and those opinions may not necessarily reflect yours. If that is the case, it is perfectly okay to do your own thing.

For example, good luck telling those who think breast feeding is better than bottle feeding that you prefer to use the bottle. You need to be ready for them to be very passionate about their opinions and you might, in extreme cases, even be called names and accused of being a horrible parent because of your preference.

However, for some women nursing is just not convenient. There are women who may not produce enough milk. It is perfectly okay to bottle feed if this is your choice, the same that that it is perfectly fine to breast feed if you choose to do so.

Naturalists and tree huggers will tell you that cloth diapers are a better choice than disposable diapers for obvious reasons. Cloth diapers are reusable and do not litter the environment.

Some may tell you that cloth is better than the disposables for baby’s skin and reduces diaper rash. Maybe in the old days this was true, but the advancements in disposable diapers have come so far along that the opposite would seem to be the case now.

Disposable diapers will keep your baby dry while cloth will keep baby wet beginning as soon as baby wets in it. Wetness causes rash, so you do the math. What if you are driving and unable to pull over in a moment to change your baby?

This can be a horrible experience for both you and your baby if she is in cloth diapers because she is feeling very uncomfortable and letting you know it. You can not get mad at your baby for crying. Imagine if you were sitting in a towel full of…well, you know. You would cry, too. Disposables are very absorbent and help keep your baby dry.

Disposable diapers are also much more convenient when traveling, or even visiting friends and relatives or shopping. When your baby needs changed, you have to carry the dirty cloth diaper around with you everywhere you go. Even if you rinsed it, it is going to smell. Disposables can just be tossed in the garbage and you leave all of that smell behind.

Of course, cloth diapers are more cost effective than disposable ones, but are they really? You have to wash them in special baby detergent, and who’s paying you for your time? You need to have diaper pins, rubber pants, lots of cloth diapers, petroleum jelly to keep some of the wetness off of baby, powders, rash ointments, and more trips to the pediatrician when the rashes get bad.

Disposable diapers in the short term may cost you money, but in the long run it may even out, and you and baby will be much happier using them.

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Originally posted 2009-08-29 10:09:24. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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How to Choose a Children’s Book, Part 3 – The Themes of a Book

This is the third in a series of articles on how to choose a children’s book. Last time, I argued for the crucial importance of choosing books with subjective appeal, i.e., books that a child will like, and not books that are merely good for a child in some way. In this article I will begin discussing the considerations that make up a book’s subjective appeal. Specifically, I will discuss the role of a book’s themes in rendering it appealing to a child, and I will try to give some specific guidance on what to look for in the themes of a children’s book.

What do I mean by the “themes” of a children’s book? By “themes” I mean the specific content of the book, or what the book is about. For example, in a science book about snakes, the theme might simply be snakes. Or, in a book like The Invention of Hugo Cabret, the themes might include coping with loss, or finding one’s purpose in the world. In a book like Martin’s Big Words, the themes might include justice, equality, and love.

The key to choosing a book with themes that will make the book appealing to a child is to choose themes that directly relate to the experience of the child. Some aspects of a child’s experience will be shared with most every other child in her age or developmental category.

For example, most every child in the infant-to-two-years category is acquiring basic language and concepts, is learning to control her body in various basic ways, and is coming to recognize some of the objects in the world. Given that most every infant-to-2-year-old shares experiences of this kind, books with themes that directly connect with these experiences will be thematically age appropriate.

Thus, for the infant-to-two-years category, age appropriate themes might include colors and numbers (e.g., One Red Sun: A Counting Book, by Ezra Jack Keats), the alphabet (e.g., Dr. Seuss’s ABC, by Dr. Seuss), making noise (e.g., Clap Hands by Helen Oxenbury), dogs (e.g., Follow Carl!, by Alexandra Day), potty training (e.g., Once Upon a Potty, by Alona Frankel), and bedtime (e.g., Grandfather Twilight, by Barbara Helen Berger).

Children in the three-to-five-years category are learning to do more things for themselves, are continuing to gain more understanding of the how the world works, are working on mastery of their impulses and emotions, are beginning to navigate relationships with parents, siblings, and friends, and are beginning to acquire basic values. Thus, age appropriate themes might include doing things “by myself” (e.g., Hey, Little Baby!, by Nola Buck), going to the zoo (e.g., When We Went to the Zoo, by Jan Ormerod), getting angry (e.g., When Sophie Gets Angry-Really, Really Angry…, by Molly Bang), or friendship (e.g., Frog and Toad Are Friends, by Arnold Lobel).

Age appropriate themes for children in the six-to-eight-years category might include relationships at school (e.g., Chrysanthemum, by Kevin Henkes), pets (e.g., Comet’s Nine Lives, by Jan Brett), moral character (e.g., Once a Mouse…, by Marcia Brown), and family relationships (Sylvester and the Magic Pebble, by William Steig). Age appropriate themes for children in the nine-to-twelve-years category might include friendships, conflicts between good and evil (e.g., Harry Potter and the Sorcerer’s Stone, by J.K. Rowling), and finding one’s place in the world (e.g., The Invention of Hugo Cabret, by Brian Selznick). These lists of age-appropriate themes are just a start and should not be taken as exhaustive.

Finally, while age appropriate themes will likely connect with any child in a given age or developmental category, there will also be certain themes that will appeal to the particular child you have in mind simply because of her specific interests. For example, my eight-year-old daughter has always been fascinated by all things scientific, and especially the science of living things. When she was five or so her aunt gave her a book on plant function and anatomy, and she devoured it. She still tells me about “stomata” and “pistils” years later! In my initial estimation, this sort of book would have been dead boring for a five-year-old (and it would be boring for many five-year-olds). But, for my little scientist, it was fascinating because she had a special interest in the theme of the book.

The bottom-line is this: when choosing a book for a child, consider the themes of the book and whether they connect with the current life experiences of the child, given his age and special interests. Themes of this sort will contribute to making the book appealing to the child you are choosing for. In fact, sometimes an interesting theme alone is enough to make a book appealing to a child.

In the next post in this series I will continue to discuss the particular factors that contribute to a book’s subjective appeal. Specifically, I will take up the important topic of illustration quality.

Aaron Mead is currently a Ph.D. student in philosophy at UCLA, and has degrees from Stanford University (B.S., M.S.), Fuller Theological Seminary (M.Div.), and California State University, Los Angeles (M.A.). His philosophical interests include moral psychology and the development of moral character. He was fortunate to have book-savvy parents and has inherited their discriminating taste for children’s literature. Aaron runs Children’s Books and Reviews ( http://www.childrensbooksandreviews.com/ ), a website that publishes articles and reviews of children’s books, with an online bookstore full of excellent children’s literature for all ages.

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Fancy Nancy Books – Great Books to Enjoy Reading With Your Child

If you are looking for the perfect books that you can enjoy reading with your daughter, you may like to consider reading the Fancy Nancy books. These books are a collection of stories that have been written by Jane O’Connor and they are so enjoyable that both you and your daughter are sure to be charmed by them.

Who Are These Books Aimed At?

These story books are suitable for children aged 4 years and upwards. The stories are self contained so you do not have to buy all the books in the series in order to follow the plots. Each book is filled with beautifully illustrated drawings which depict the adventures that the little heroine of the books has.

What Are The Books About?

The Fancy Nancy books are focused on a young girl called Nancy. She has particular personality traits that make her very unique. She is however, also like other little girls because she loves to play dress up and always likes to look her best at all times.

Each book focuses on a particular adventure or situation that Nancy finds herself in. They are written with great humour and wonderful expressions that it makes it very easy for people to envision exactly what little Nancy would be like in real life.

Once you get started on the story books, you may be interested to find out more about the reading books that have been specifically created in order to help young children to improve their reading skills.

Fancy Nancy books are a great way to help introduce your child to the joys of reading. They also make a great gift idea for any occasion.

Find out more about Fancy Nancy books and the adventures that Fancy Nancy gets involved in.

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The Amazing World of Books For Kids

As any parent is surely aware, one of the most important factors in the education of your child is their ability to read. Even when a child is just a baby, reading to them is incredibly important, and is advised by all different experts in child development. How well a child learns to read, and how comfortable they become with books in general, are very important determinants in how well they will achieve in school and far later in their life.

Therefore, it is wonderful that there is such a great array and variety of children books available today. No matter the age, reading level or preferences of your child, there is sure to be something at the book store that will absolutely fascinate them. From simple board books, to beginning reader selections, to full blown novels, there is an endless and incredible number of children books on the shelves at today’s bookstores.

If you have a very small child, head over to the kids section of your local bookstore or library. You are sure to be amazed at the wonderful variety of board books available for your toddler. While this kind of children book might seem rather pointless, it is actually anything but. These board books are wonderful ways of introducing your very young child to the world of reading. The large, colorful pictures, sturdy cardboard pages and simple words are great ways to begin showing a child what reading is all about. If you want to introduce your child to children books, board books are excellent options and highly recommended.

As your child grows older and enters grade school, you will be amazed at how rapidly their reading skills seem to “snowball.” Schools definitely emphasize reading skills, and encourage students to read for fun as well as for assignments. You can supplement your child’s education by supplying them with a good variety of children books as they grow up. Many schools have annual book fairs, too, which offer great deals on books that are popular for young readers.

Another great way to get your child excited about reading is by making trips to the local library a regular event. Libraries generally have great sections of children books available, so your child will be able to routinely stop in and find something that piques their interest. Visiting the library on a regular basis is a wonderful way to instill a true love of reading in your child; they are likely to begin making reading a lifelong habit when you encourage them from a very early age.

For older kids, today’s selection of children books is truly unbeatable. From blockbuster successes like Harry Potter to a good number of popular chapter books, kids have many great options for finding a style of literature that appeals to them. Books aimed at kids truly do make reading fun; they feature characters and story lines that kids can identify with and be entertained by. Thanks to the wonderful features and great variety of children books available today, your child is sure to find something they will truly enjoy reading.

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